Introducing: Handsome Vic

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  • #684809
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    Handsome Vic
    Handsome Vic
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    Greetings gentlemen! I’m Handsome Vic.

    What an excellent website and resource this is. Great work by the admins, and the many contributors.

    I found this website, and MGTOW in general, about eight months ago. I’ve been reading it daily since for the essential dose of red pills it provides to keep me strong.

    Some key facts about me… middle aged professional. Been divorced once (3 year marriage), then common-law once (15 year cohabitation). No kids from any relations~~~.

    I’ve got no problem with divulging that my divorce cost me around $20K in fees and property division settlement. Only because we were young, the marriage was short and we weren’t worth anything financially. The cohabitation on the other hand cost me $100K in alimony and legal fees to resolve. Would have been far worse off if “legally married”.

    I paid more than some, and less than others. Some men have paid with everything they have.

    Yes, young men: know that in todays society marriage and/or living together comes with EXTREME FINANCIAL RISK to the husband, less so to the wife.

    I would say the pills I took in this life started blue, turned purple and are now bright red.

    For me, the initial value in discovering “MGTOW” was to see that my fragmented observations about women were in fact widespread, and there was a lexicon which made everything make logical sense. In my experience, the “CC”, “the wall”, “the chameleon”, ‘hamstering” …. it is all so true. I have lived it, I can vouch for it and now I can articulate it.

    The enduring value in my becoming MGTOW is that I am living out the freedom that comes with no longer being a pussy beggar. I see through women’s manipulations… I deal with women on MY terms. I live life MY way. I give priority to MY own desires. The people I let enter my life are a positive force, and I return my positivity to them.

    I do not believe that to go my own way is to be utterly selfish, or heartless, or criminal. Or, for that matter, to check out of society. Whatever the whackjob SJWs screech — I believe men can find dignity and accomplishment in living up to their individual male abilities and potential. I believe most of us men find much fulfilment in exercising the best parts of our MALE NATURE when we constructively build on the legacy our forefathers left us. I believe the ultimate key to MY success as a MGTOW is to keep my motivations detached from capricious female approval.

    A couple of final thoughts on why I “didn’t” join this site. I didn’t come here to force feed anyone red pills. Like Morpheus said, I believe that most men are “not ready to be unplugged.” To take strength when awoken is, however, different, and if I can provide that strength as you have done for me I will be doing a good thing.

    I didn’t come here to bash women. I don’t hate women at large. But regrettably, engaging with women on anything beyond a superficial basis has become a social, legal and financial minefield. This won’t change in my time. The rational choice is to GO MY OWN WAY.

    Cheers gents, great site.
    Handsome Vic

    I’m going my own way. Maybe I’ll see you there.

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #684812
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    Hitman
    hitman
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    welcome.
    please participate at will.
    glad you are here.
    cheers !!!
    are you british?

    #684816
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    Handsome Vic
    Handsome Vic
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    Hi hitman
    Nope… I’m Canadian!

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #684818
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    Duke Togo
    Duke Togo
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    Welcome brother. Excellent introduction.

    Love your avatar by the way.

    #684821
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    DocDJ
    DocDJ
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    Welcome Vic.
    So… why do they call you handsome? 😉

    No need to answer. Just couldn’t resist asking.

    Good intro. I like your analysis.
    Yep – it’s a minefield for sure.

    I think a lot of men here are MGTOW because there is no other option left for us.
    I’m middle aged myself with a divorce under my belt.
    I got off lightly compared to some.

    But at this stage in life I need some predictability so I shut the door to women.

    I’m Monk presently but would probably have a causal physical thing if someone was attractive enough.
    I rule that out tho because I hardly ever come across attractive women. If the chassis is good the internals are usually awful and I just ain’t interested a massaging monstrous egos.
    I would sooner go without.

    Anyway – enjoy the site. Look forward to your posts.

    The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

    #684834
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    O2tosin
    o2tosin
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    Welcome, sorry for not closing the door… tower f~~~ed off with the hinges.

    Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" .

    #684849
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    Manspread Mansplainer
    Manspread Mansplainer
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    Good intro, no red pill rage screaming at the world. That’s awesome.

    I would say the pills I took in this life started blue, turned purple and are now bright red.
    For me, the initial value in discovering “MGTOW” was to see that my fragmented observations about women were in fact widespread, and there was a lexicon which made everything make logical sense. In my experience, the “CC”, “the wall”, “the chameleon”, ‘hamstering” …. it is all so true.

    That was my favorite part too. It’s funny and true. And of course : Chad.

    Nope… I’m Canadian!

    Same here. Canada will become a MGTOW stronghold these women are the WORST.

    Cheers bro!

    #IceThemOut ~ Let them have cats. Let them have wine. Let them have bubble baths... Alone and wondering where the good men are.

    #684859
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    JVB
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    Great intro. Welcome handsome Vic. Put that all in the rear view and carry on bro. Feel free to help yourself to as many beers as you need. Located in DocDJ’s fridge.

    For those about to MGTOW........I salute you.

    #684893
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    Johnny zero
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    Great intro! You “GET” it.
    I live MGTOW b/c its a very satisfying way to live. I don’t hate women, I just don’t take them seriously & relate to them on my own terms.
    Glad your here. Please feel free to contribute often.

    Once again Welcome & Thank you!

    MGTOW is the future & the future is NOW

    See things as they are and not as you would want them to be

    #684918
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    MG-ɹǝʍo┴
    MG-ɹǝʍo┴
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    The people I let enter my life are a positive force, and I return my positivity to them.

    Your entire post is filled with MGTOW awesomeness!

    I didn’t come here to bash women. I don’t hate women at large. But regrettably, engaging with women on anything beyond a superficial basis has become a social, legal and financial minefield. This won’t change in my time. The rational choice is to GO MY OWN WAY.

    Brother, I feel the same way! Thanks for showing up! Your mindset sparkles! Brighten up the place!

    Really enjoyed reading your post! Thank-you!

    #684932
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    Akhilleus
    Akhilleus
    Participant
    2027

    Welcome bro great into.

    Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

    #684934
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    M52
    M52
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    Welcome home, Vic
    Beer’s in the fridge

    Retired from the Wars.

    #684935
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    Mgtow_taoist
    mgtow_taoist
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    I believe the ultimate key to MY success as a MGTOW is to keep my motivations detached from capricious female approval.

    ^^The most essential piece of red pill/MGTOW advice. Welcome brother.

    “The soul becomes dyed with the colour of its thoughts.” ~Marcus Aurelius

    #684943
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    Kolaxis
    Kolaxis
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    Welcome aboard, Vic. Glad you found your way here.

    Jackie: How do you write women so well?
    Melvin Udall: I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.

    #684951
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    Kowalski
    Kowalski
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    1937

    Welcome Vic. Awesome intro.

    #icethemout

    #684963
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    Romulus
    Romulus
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    Welcome Vic, thank you for your intro, well stated.

    How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being

    #684977
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    MarketWatcher
    MarketWatcher
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    No kids from any relations~~~

    Thank God!!!!! I missed that speeding bullet as well.

    engaging with women on anything beyond a superficial basis has become a social, legal and financial minefield. This won’t change in my time. The rational choice is to GO MY OWN WAY

    Damn right brother.

    Welcome home!

    #685091
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    SH3LLZ
    SH3LLZ
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    Welcome Vic! Great intro. Welcome home!

    #ICETHEMOUT Deny them everything!

    Everyday I walk the razors edge. Balance & Focus required. #ICETHEMOUT !!!

    #685426
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    Handsome Vic
    Handsome Vic
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    Gents, thank you for such kind welcome comments and even “counter-introductions” telling me about yourselves as well! It’s like a virtual handshake!

    But at this stage in life I need some predictability so I shut the door to women.

    Yup. Very sound. Not gonna derail my future either.

    Canada will become a MGTOW stronghold these women are the WORST.

    Canadian women are among the most hyper-privileged and hyper-entitled women in the world. Laws and policies which systematically elevate women — now to the measurable detriment of men — pervade the family courts, government, universities and the private sector workplace. I will share specifics of some of these in future posts and you can see for yourself.

    No wonder Canadian men are running like hell from marriage and kids:

    Marriage is in noteworthy decline in Canada, and “single” households are on the rise:

    http://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/marriage-and-divorce/
    The Canadian domestic birthrate has fallen from 2.1 two 1.5, well below the replacement rate:

    https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=3&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwio9-y1x_nXAhVNx2MKHXOnBPAQFggvMAI&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.med.uottawa.ca%2Fsim%2Fdata%2Fbirth_rates_e.htm&usg=AOvVaw2cNzuQ3WlEk4A2Q-VDuYql

    Articles blame this on economics, but men here know the truth. It is blowback from hyper-feminist entitlements in Canada.

    Men are walking away. I did, and life is so much easier.

    Cheers fellas

    I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

    #685666
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    Oldschool
    Oldschool
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    Welcome Vic.

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