2018-01-12 at 1:57 AM #714591+11
Dear Friends (My Introduction);
Last week I made a post about my story thus far. I explained some intricacies of my 8-year relationship (that ended) and you guys began to open my eyes about the reality of female motive. I’d been aware of the MGTOW lifestyle for a little while prior but never really understood some of the things I read – until it happened to me.
Now I attempt to make a new introduction – as a man about to start his journey head first into looking after myself and putting my goals, freedom & happiness first. Before I begin. To those that helped me with advice on my previous post – thank you.
I’m 27 next month. In great shape. Solid Job. Well Educated. This year will be my reset.
1st Money: Due to bad life choices, 8 years spending on things I didn’t care for in a relationship, A Master’s Degree, Credit Cards, 8 months of travelling & a car on finance…my money situation could be a lot better. That all sounds a lot worse than it actually is…but I have approximately £15,000 to pay off. I’m not afraid of hard work. That’s something I learnt from my dad and I’m prepared to do what needs to be done to get out of a mess I put myself in. The aim is to have a higher paid FT job by May 2018 and supplement my income with a 2nd job on weekends. I’ve planned it out and I can pay everything off in the next 15 months – freeing up about £700 a month and having NO COMPULSORY bills but Rent. This will be the basis for my savings going forward as I attempt to build my wealth. #relief
(As a side note, it’s LIBERATING to be able to only spend MY money on the things I want. Even though in my old relationship we split everything, I didn’t realise we were still spending on s~~~ I didn’t care for)
2nd Work: As mentioned, I have a great job at the moment, but I need to earn more so I can save more and start my 30’s secure and free. Alongside the quest for more fulfilling work I’ve already starting spending more time on my ‘side projects’ – something I was chastised & teased for in my previous relationship. Put simply, these ‘side projects’ make me money. Not a lot right now, but with my new-found time I’ve committed the resources to make them grow. My ultimate goal is self-employment. In 5 years’ time (I’ll be 32) I don’t see why this won’t be possible by then.
3rd Leisure: I’ve always stayed in shape and I love martial arts, fencing & American football. I used to fight for sport but AGAIN…the restrictions of my old relationship stopped me from doing the things I love. I have a black belt in two disciplines and used to teach PT in my early 20’s. I re-joined an old Krav Maga class this week and I’M LOVING it again. The freedom to be able to do WHATEVER you want is so fulfilling. I was a fool to have thrown it all away but I’m taking control again. I LOVE trying new things and being in nature and now have the opportunity to do it again.
I look back now and see how RESTRICTED I was in a relationship. You fool yourself that you’re happy when really you get no support and are fed constant lies. I was there to feed her ego and help her be happy – at the expense of myself. It literally was a trade for sex and it just wasn’t worth it.
I’ve been reading like mad this past month or so (another hobby I was forced to throw aside as I had to spend time with her instead). MGTOW books like the ‘Rational Male’, ‘The Manipulated Man’ & ‘Batchelor Pad Economics’ have further opened my eyes about feminine imperative. There’s a lot more for me to learn and I have a tough 15 months ahead of me. Either way, I get happier every day and I find myself thinking less and less about my last relationship. It wasn’t valuable. I had her on a pedestal. Now I come first!
Thanks for reading.
Arcturis2018-01-12 at 2:10 AM #714596+5
Welcome home again, Arcturis
Beer’s still in the fridge
Retired from the Wars.2018-01-12 at 2:11 AM #714597+2
Welcome bro . Sounds like you really want to pull your s~~~ together . Stay clear of woman . Dont get distracted and you will be fine
THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .2018-01-12 at 2:22 AM #714601+4
may 7 2020Participant
With MGTOW and the red pill you will be unstoppable!
8 years was a long time to be with someone and not get married, and it will take a while to get over. Let us know how we can help you. We are all survivors of some sort of relationship break up. You did a lot of the right things…cutting off communication is critical.
She knows that you were the prize, and she lost you. She may try to get you back. Do not be Plan B. You have your own plans and dreams, go get them.
Welcome to the last male only space on Earth, ummm except for that one Japanese Island. Beer is in Oldschool’s fridge. Pull up a chair and stay a while.
Oh, you got out cheap. Thank your lucky stars that you did not get married. Disaster averted my friend.
So you need some cat pelts? No problem, I got a guy.2018-01-12 at 2:36 AM #714607+2
Welcome! Glad you caught on early.
Be advised that as your independence grows so does your strength of character & women are attracted to that.
Stay focused on self & the next 15 months or so will b fun as you move forward with your life achieving your personal goals.
At this stage of my life ( retired ) I am a minimalist. I have no debt only living expenses. It can be done.
I see many of my friends ( young & old ) pursue nonsensical crap behind appeasing a woman. Its sad.
MGTOW is a way of life, so choose your own way. That’s the point.
Your young & have a lot to look forward too.
Stick with the winners
Stick with MGTOW
( I come & go as I please )
See things as they are and not as you would want them to be2018-01-12 at 3:30 AM #714613+2
Greetings Arcturis. I am 30 years your senior and was at a similar place in life back then. It DOES get better with time.
Seems you are well prepared for success and awakening to the realities of the modern woman will go a long way to helping you protect and enjoy your life.
Pull up a chair and stay a while!2018-01-12 at 4:53 AM #714637+2
Modern women are a financial risk to any man no matter how much wealth he creates! Men spend money wisely and women spend money foolishly on gratification.
Every time I see a woman wearing a giant expensive rock on their finger my mind’s eye sees a man in the background slaving away to give princess everything spoiling her in the process and getting less than nothing in return, he’s feeding and running the gynocentric machinery geared to eventually grind him up and dispose of him in lour of a replacement drone (disposable man).
You chose the best time in the history of mankind to take on the MGTOW endeavor! You’re running out from a raging fire that burns men numbering multi millions and spanning several generations, and getting worse with each passing day!
Men are degraded, humiliated, slandered, and hated in all forms of media.
Women receive the opposite, they can do no wrong and are perfect, they are praised for everything, right or wrong!
They insanity has hit an all time record!
Only MGTOW are the sane people dwelling in a world of CRAZIES!
Welcome home, and smooth sailing!
BODYCAM When a man finds himself in this sea of utter madness2018-01-12 at 8:41 AM #714783+2
Man…I wish I had this site back when I was your age bro! Arcturis…I *hope* you know just how f~~~ing lucky you are to be in your position! A lot of us here would do ANYTHING to go back, knowing what we know now! Make the most of it and make sure you red pill EVERY DAY! Never subjugate your personal sovereignty to a tuna again! Your young, so pump & dump will be hard to let go of but…trust me…you get a bit older: the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze anymore, as they say around here! Good luck in your future! #MANOUT!
An educated, armed populace cannot be enslaved.2018-01-12 at 11:09 AM #714858+2
Welcome again, brother. I love hearing all your plans now that you realize what makes you happy. Keep us in the loop of what’s going on with you.2018-01-12 at 11:47 AM #714922+2
welcome friend. time to embrace your freedoms and seize new opportunities.
Been Spending Most Of Life Living In A Bachelors Paradise2018-01-13 at 1:03 AM #715626
The Manipulated ManParticipant1455
Many Thanks for establishing your excellent Bonafides.
I look forward to reading your posts in the Forums.
The best thing you can do now is study MGTOW wisdom and get a superior understanding of “Women’s Nature.”
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